Somewhere along the way, I lost my TMI

[shadowspar]

I realized something last week while chatting over in the #dreamwidth-bitch IRC channel. When it comes to things people share with me, I don't really have an overshare zone. I mean, I watch what I say & try not to expose people to stuff they don't want to find out about. But incoming? I can't remember the last time someone tripped my TMI-meter. I may have had one at some point but I think I lost it somewhere along the way.

Maybe this has something to do with having been on the internetz for 15 years or so and being exposed to the kind of frank honesty that a lot of folks evince online. Even back before the days of blogs, I remember some people displaying a combination of self-knowledge and frank honesty that I really envied. ISTR reading one person's homepage, whence they described their typical day; it began with something along the lines of "Wake up, have a wank, get out of bed, ..." and I did a double-take, not because I found the disclosure that they were having a wank shocking or upsetting -- I didn't in the least -- but that they were forthright & open enough to put that fact online in public for all to read.

People have sex, periods, gross bodily functions, sordid histories, inappropriate fantasies about the people in their lives, and embarrassing moments at the supermarket. That's life! In all of its bodily and erotic and sometimes unflattering and imperfect glory. While the specifics are going to vary, these kinds of things happen to all of us in some way, shape, or form. So while I respect that not everybody wants to hear every last glorious detail of my sinus cold or ice-cream induced digestive difficulties, if there's something you want to get out in the open, don't feel compelled to hold back on my account. I'm only human, and I'm willing to bet you're only human too.

Comments

[pinesandmaples]

Is this a hint that you want more TMI in the form of sordid sex chatter...?

[shadowspar]

It means exactly what it says on the tin -- a general & nonspecific declaration that sharing things that other folks consider TMI is perfectly fine with me. The intended message lies somewhere between "Your kink is OK with me" and "This stuff doesn't make me bat an eyelash".

That being said, you know, if you felt inclined to dish up a round of deliciously sordid sex chatter, I would in no wise object. ^_^;

[pinesandmaples]

I was just trying to make things All About Me™. This is the internet, AMIRITE?

[highlyeccentric]

+1!

[switterbeet]

Heheh, good to know. At least for the physical squick factor, I feel relatively immune due to my biology obsession. I am sometimes surprised how frank people will be about their feelings though. Not put off, just surprised. How much I'm willing to put out there is TOTALLY influenced by who I know might read it (and how trackable it is back to my SekretIdentity).

[shadowspar]

Whaaat, you have a SekretIdentity!?! I should have known you were someone whose work uniform involves wearing a cape. =)

[switterbeet]

SHHHH! DUN TELL!