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  <title>shadowspar</title>
  <subtitle>open sky / shooting star / nothing else but who we are</subtitle>
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    <name>shadowspar</name>
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  <updated>2023-12-27T18:35:50Z</updated>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:134818</id>
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    <title>Power pop goodness :D</title>
    <published>2014-11-22T03:54:59Z</published>
    <updated>2014-11-22T03:56:22Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="my brain let me show you it"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <dw:mood>bouncy</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
Aaaa, this blast from the past rolled around on my partner's spotify tonight.  So much power pop goodness...I have &lt;em&gt;~feels~&lt;/em&gt; about this song. ^_^;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;iframe width="420" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/UHzUjndMYZ8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
Also notable: apparently Weezer &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7BlPiDjdj8"&gt;did a cover of this song&lt;/a&gt; for the movie Cars 2. It's pretty good! They didn't stray very far from the original. =)
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:133168</id>
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    <title>Actually, it's about ridiculous gg image macros</title>
    <published>2014-10-27T04:41:54Z</published>
    <updated>2014-10-27T04:42:20Z</updated>
    <category term="gamergate"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="imgmacro"/>
    <dw:music>Kelis - Brave</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>chipper</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>3</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Ever feel so strongly about the non-existence of a given image macro that the world just seemed out of balance until you went and made it yourself?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yeah, uh, me neither. ^_^;;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://shadowspar.dreamwidth.org/133168.html#cutid1"&gt;Well, actually, images are under the cut&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=133168" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:131207</id>
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    <title>I do actually try to keep these in mind...</title>
    <published>2014-10-13T05:57:00Z</published>
    <updated>2014-10-13T05:57:21Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="people"/>
    <category term="random:quotes"/>
    <dw:mood>contemplative</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;...when dealing with difficult people on the Internets.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://shadowspar.dreamwidth.org/131207.html#cutid1"&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=131207" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:122083</id>
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    <title>THE BLUE HEARTS - 終わらない歌 ("Endless song")</title>
    <published>2013-11-19T06:00:32Z</published>
    <updated>2023-12-27T18:35:50Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <category term="the blue hearts"/>
    <category term="music"/>
    <dw:music>THE BLUE HEARTS - 終わらない歌</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>militant, lol</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>4</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
I can't even verbalize how well listening to THE BLUE HEARTS
suits night like this.
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;iframe width="420" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/t-Jhc0rPhRk" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://shadowspar.dreamwidth.org/122083.html#cutid1"&gt;Lyrics &amp; my translation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=122083" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:120358</id>
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    <title>TiL: bar outing edition</title>
    <published>2013-10-27T08:30:43Z</published>
    <updated>2013-10-27T08:31:23Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="til"/>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <dw:mood>tired</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>5</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">...wow!  Big learning experience during tonight's evening festivities.  If someone wants to hit on me, here are two good ways to get our interaction off to the worst possible start: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt; &lt;li&gt;be completely shitfaced drunk; and&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;offer me a drink by offering to give me an actual beverage that is already in your possession. (Your intentions may be completely aboveboard, but I have &lt;em&gt;no idea&lt;/em&gt; where that drink's been or what might be in it.)&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;*boggle*&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=120358" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:112052</id>
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    <title>Comedy of errors</title>
    <published>2013-03-09T01:44:53Z</published>
    <updated>2013-03-09T01:45:24Z</updated>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <category term="random:tech"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:mood>amused</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">Trying to repurpose the in-law's ancient WinXP machine by installing Debian on it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The BIOS is too old to boot from USB.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The CD-ROM drive won't open on its own, and doesn't seem to recognize the contents of the Debian install CD, even after booting Windows. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;None of the usual methods to boot Linux from a Windows partition are working for me.  Take one last stab at getting grub4win to work for me, then reboot the machine, exasperated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The CD-ROM drive suddenly decides to clue into Debian install CD that's been sitting in it all the while, for like the last dozen reboots. O_o ... &lt;em&gt;woot!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was damn sure that I was heading for PXE territory for a while there! :D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=112052" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:111870</id>
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    <title>quotequote</title>
    <published>2013-03-07T23:55:40Z</published>
    <updated>2013-03-07T23:56:24Z</updated>
    <category term="random:quotes"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:mood>contemplative</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;
Unruly beings are as unlimited as space; &lt;br /&gt;
They cannot possibly all be overcome. &lt;br /&gt;
But if I overcome thoughts of anger alone, &lt;br /&gt;
This will be equivalent to vanquishing all foes. &lt;br /&gt;
:Shantideva
&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:104090</id>
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    <title>Moon Dough</title>
    <published>2012-11-21T05:40:40Z</published>
    <updated>2012-11-21T05:40:51Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="parenting"/>
    <category term="random:parenting"/>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <category term="random:domesticity"/>
    <dw:mood>aggravated</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>6</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">FWIW: not only is this stuff super-crumbly and hella messy, it also makes hardwood floors slippery as all hell.  As proof of which, witness the complete feet-out-from-underneath wipeout my 4yo daughter had tonight.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If your kids get some of this headache-disguised-as-modelling-compound for giftmas, do yourselves a favour and throw it right in the trash.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=104090" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:97222</id>
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    <title>Metaphors that possibly make sense only to me</title>
    <published>2012-09-09T15:08:03Z</published>
    <updated>2012-09-09T15:08:16Z</updated>
    <category term="software"/>
    <category term="pinball"/>
    <category term="ux"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="my brain let me show you it"/>
    <dw:music>Sunsphere - Feel the Waves</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>okay</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
Something that dawned on me while I was writing this piece on 
&lt;a href="http://www.stickyminds.com/s.asp?F=S17542_ART_2"&gt;bug chaining&lt;/a&gt;
-- ever run into software where your experience was 
being controlled by bugs, and not the software's features?
Sometimes things get so bad that you feel like you're being
kicked from one defect to another instead of piloting your
own way through the software.
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
To me, that feels almost exactly like the difference 
between the 
&lt;a href="http://www.ipdb.org/glossary.php#Slingshot"&gt;slings&lt;/a&gt;
and the 
&lt;a href="http://www.ipdb.org/glossary.php#Flipper"&gt;flippers&lt;/a&gt;
being in control of your pinball. ^_^;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=97222" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:94412</id>
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    <title>Things which amuse me greatly</title>
    <published>2012-08-07T04:35:51Z</published>
    <updated>2012-08-07T04:45:06Z</updated>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:music>Funiculì, Funiculà</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>tired but amused</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;...when you finally figure out the name, and from thence the lyrics, of a tune you've been hearing since forever.  Oftimes, the song turns out to be almost exactly unlike the mental image of it you'd formed in your head. Sometimes the two are so incongruous as to be completely absurd. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To wit: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Funicul%C3%AC,_Funicul%C3%A0"&gt;Funiculì, Funiculà&lt;/a&gt;.  Here's &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PG4SbelgIFk"&gt;Andrea Bocelli singing it&lt;/a&gt;.  Assuming you don't speak Neapolitan, listen to the performance first, then head over to the Wikipedia page and see what this uplifting, noble tune is an ode to. =)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
    &lt;p&gt;
        &lt;em&gt;
    Jamme, jamme 'ncoppa, jamme jà,  &lt;br /&gt;
    Jamme, jamme 'ncoppa, jamme jà,  &lt;br /&gt;
    Funiculì, funiculà, funiculì, funiculà! &lt;br /&gt;
    Jamme, jamme jà, funiculì, funiculà! 
        &lt;/em&gt;
    &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:91576</id>
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    <title>fun with science...fsvo "fun"</title>
    <published>2012-07-14T12:38:51Z</published>
    <updated>2012-07-14T12:40:51Z</updated>
    <category term="random:link"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="safety"/>
    <category term="science"/>
    <dw:music>Shakira - Será, Será</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>okay</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
If you're at all a science geek -- and quite possibly even if you're not -- 
&lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php"&gt;this thread about lab mishaps&lt;/a&gt; is both profoundly amusing and profoundly edifying.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
Couple highlights:
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
    &lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php#183451"&gt;This incident&lt;/a&gt;, my friends, is why we never handle compressed gas cylinders with anything but the utmost respect.  I'm more than a little shocked (and frightened) by how casually some paintball players treat their tanks -- throwing them around, filling HPA too quickly, and so on.  A tank accident is Bad Fucking Scene.
    &lt;/li&gt;

    &lt;li&gt;
        When you store radioactive materials, you might want to make sure that you
        &lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php#204070"&gt;shield them on &lt;em&gt;all&lt;/em&gt; the sides&lt;/a&gt;.
    &lt;/li&gt;

    &lt;li&gt;
        The simplest of careless mistakes can lead to the utmost consequences:
        &lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php#183454"&gt;&lt;em&gt;five hundred thousand quid&lt;/em&gt; worth of computing equipment dashed to pieces&lt;/a&gt;, all because one crane cable wasn't secure.
    &lt;/li&gt;

    &lt;li&gt;
        The simplest of careless mistakes, #2: 
        years worth of work and untold numbers of irreplaceable microorganisms destroyed in an instant when
&lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php#191216"&gt;somebody sterilized the wrong cell-storage tank&lt;/a&gt;.
    &lt;/li&gt;

    &lt;li&gt;
        Finally, when you get down on yourself about ruining a recipe or busting something at work, you can take some solace in the fact that you're not the guy who
        &lt;a href="http://pipeline.corante.com/archives/2007/02/01/how_not_to_do_it_ruining_stuff.php#418204"&gt;washed $650,000 worth of gold down the drain&lt;/a&gt;.
    &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
(Found via &lt;a href="https://twitter.com/Pinboard/status/223932150255321088"&gt;Maciej&lt;/a&gt;.)
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=91576" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:91068</id>
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    <title>Win!</title>
    <published>2012-07-05T03:19:59Z</published>
    <updated>2012-07-05T03:21:12Z</updated>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <category term="random:travel"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="win"/>
    <dw:mood>victorious</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>6</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;ul&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
        Chanced upon a 24-hour grocery store that had a half-dozen 
        huge aisles full of imported-from-Israel kosher food, &lt;em&gt;and&lt;/em&gt;
    &lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
        remembered that &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bissli"&gt;bissli&lt;/a&gt;
        was the canonical-ish Israeli snack food that
        &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://marina.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://marina.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;marina&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; 
        &lt;a href="http://marina.dreamwidth.org/1102376.html"&gt;had mentioned a
        while ago&lt;/a&gt;.
    &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
Pizza bissli == can haz. 
&lt;em&gt;*crunch* *crunch* *reaches for a glass of water*&lt;/em&gt; 
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:90831</id>
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    <title>Canada Day on Parliament Hill</title>
    <published>2012-07-02T03:10:00Z</published>
    <updated>2012-07-02T03:10:15Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:travel"/>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <dw:music>Le Diable aux Corsets - Le Labyrinthe</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>happy</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;ul&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;gun salutes&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;O Canada in both official languages, with a fly-by by the Snowbirds on the closing note&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;fresh lemonade&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;one million of your closest friends&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Canada Day Free Hugs! from several different fellow Canadians!&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;calling in a rooftop fire in Byward Market to the Ottawa fire department! (folks in the building had it mostly out by the time they got there)&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
    Lunch: Veggine poutine! and bleu cheese &amp; garlic veggie burger! at
    &lt;a href="http://zaksdiner.com/"&gt;Zak's Diner&lt;/a&gt;
    &lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
    &lt;a href="http://lediableauxcorsets.com/"&gt;Le Diable aux Corsets&lt;/a&gt;
    getting a nice round of applause for doing a sound check at 
    Major's Hill Park. =)  (They were playing snippets of
    &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8TrFfhMdYs"&gt;this song&lt;/a&gt;.)
    &lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Two very tired kidlets.&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Fireworks!&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=90831" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:89257</id>
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    <title>Today is a Musical Day</title>
    <published>2012-06-25T20:57:24Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-25T20:57:55Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
    &lt;blockquote&gt;
        &lt;em&gt;
            Well, the moon is broken / and the sky is cracked &lt;br /&gt;
            Come on up to the house &lt;br /&gt;
            The only things that you can see / is all that you lack &lt;br /&gt;
            Come on up to the house &lt;br /&gt;
            &lt;br /&gt;
            All your cryin / don't do you no good &lt;br /&gt;
            Come on up to the house &lt;br /&gt;
            Come down off the cross / we could use the wood &lt;br /&gt;
            Come on up to the house
        &lt;/em&gt;
    &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/DzapgZI5SEc?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_GB"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="sameDomain"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/DzapgZI5SEc?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="sameDomain" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzapgZI5SEc"&gt;Sarah Jarosz - Come on up to the house&lt;/a&gt; on Youtube.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=89257" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:87527</id>
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    <title>Testing, 1, 2, 3</title>
    <published>2012-06-15T04:53:17Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-15T05:21:43Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="test post"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <dw:music>Alison Krauss &amp; Union Station w/ Sierra Hull - Cluck Old Hen</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>mixed</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://mark.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user_staff.png' alt='[staff profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://mark.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;mark&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; pushed out some neat new functionality that's at a rough test stage, so I'm just posting this to help poke at things.  However, as a nice side-effect, you all get a neat little bluegrass jam I've been listening to as of late. =)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p align="center"&gt;
&lt;object width="420" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/XDZ9PN5K06Q?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="sameDomain"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/XDZ9PN5K06Q?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="sameDomain" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdz9pn5k06q"&gt;Alison Krauss &amp;amp; Union Station w/ Sierra Hull - Cluck Old Hen on Youtube.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=87527" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:86982</id>
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    <title>世界はそれを愛と呼ぶんだぜ</title>
    <published>2012-06-11T05:02:50Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-11T13:42:08Z</updated>
    <category term="j-pop"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <dw:music>Sambomaster - 世界はそれを愛と呼ぶんだぜ (Sekai wa Sore o Ai to Yobun da ze)</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>cheerful</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
I love the pointedly outlandish juxtaposition that's a not-uncommon feature of J-Pop and a lot of Japanese humour.  
&lt;a href="http://www.kiwi-musume.com/lyrics/sambomaster/sekaiwasorewoaitoyobundaze.html"&gt;
The lyrics to this one are actually a rather touching love song.
&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uM4M4F6qV3g"&gt;SamboMaster - 世界はそれを愛と呼ぶんだぜ (Sekai wa Sore o Ai to Yobun da ze - "The World Calls That Love") on Youtube&lt;/a&gt;.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=86982" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:86114</id>
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    <title>shadowspar @ 2012-06-07T07:21:00</title>
    <published>2012-06-07T11:27:01Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-07T11:29:01Z</updated>
    <category term="random:picture"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:art"/>
    <category term="art"/>
    <category term="music"/>
    <dw:mood>okay</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i.imgur.com/VVFPCl.jpg" alt="A squad of WW-II soldiers at the march, seen from behind.  Instead of weapons, they carry guitars and amps.  They are passing by a pile of wrecked and broken sound equipment."&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=86114" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:85333</id>
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    <title>Rainbows</title>
    <published>2012-06-05T02:46:42Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-05T05:35:30Z</updated>
    <category term="location:sault ste marie"/>
    <category term="random:photos"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:mood>okay</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
This place can actually be extraordinarily beautiful.
&lt;span style="font-size: smaller;"&gt;(When you're not choking on fumes
from the steel plant or being suffocated by some of the small-town
attitudes, that is.)&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
These were shot near the Roberta Bondar Pavilion, a huge permanent
tent on the waterfront downtown, right next to the St Mary's River.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;
&lt;img src="http://i.imgur.com/bDFlp.jpg" alt="A rainbow arching over Roberta Bondar Pavilion in Sault Ste Marie, Ontario." /&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;span class="cut-wrapper"&gt;&lt;span style="display: none;" id="span-cuttag___1" class="cuttag"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class="cut-open"&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-text"&gt;&lt;a href="https://shadowspar.dreamwidth.org/85333.html#cutid1"&gt;One more pic...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class="cut-close"&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="display: none;" id="div-cuttag___1" aria-live="assertive"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=85333" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:84525</id>
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    <title>Roadtrip adventures in gender</title>
    <published>2012-06-02T05:37:34Z</published>
    <updated>2012-06-02T05:37:34Z</updated>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <category term="gender"/>
    <category term="gender binary"/>
    <category term="random:travel"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="travel"/>
    <dw:music>AAA - Hurricane Riri, Boston Mari</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>exhausted</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>2</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">Stopped at a gas station in northern MI today and went to use the restrooms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;one door&lt;/em&gt;: KINGS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;other door&lt;/em&gt;: QUEENS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;me&lt;/em&gt;: &lt;strong&gt;*confused*&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=84525" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:83468</id>
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    <title>Random music: even more Basia</title>
    <published>2012-05-19T03:14:22Z</published>
    <updated>2012-05-19T03:17:46Z</updated>
    <category term="music"/>
    <category term="basia bulat"/>
    <category term="random:music"/>
    <category term="cancon"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:music>Basia Bulat - Sparrow</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>okay</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;So, I was lucky enough to get
&lt;a href="http://www.basiabulat.com/"&gt;Basia Bulat&lt;/a&gt;'s CD 
&lt;em&gt;Heart of My Own&lt;/em&gt; this past Christmas.
It's awesome, she's awesome, and anyone who's been following along at
home for a while already knew that I would say that. =)
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
Here are two tracks of hers that I hadn't heard before the CD made its
way into my hot little hands. 
&lt;/p&gt;

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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:81612</id>
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    <title>GRAH EARWORM</title>
    <published>2012-05-16T03:47:18Z</published>
    <updated>2012-05-16T03:47:18Z</updated>
    <category term="viola"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:mood>neutral</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">Things that are maddening: when you have a Bach earworm stuck in your head, and all you can do for it is to play it yourself, since you're the only one that makes it sound the way you want it to sound.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=81612" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:81402</id>
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    <title>Hug O' War</title>
    <published>2012-05-15T00:42:43Z</published>
    <updated>2012-05-15T00:44:01Z</updated>
    <category term="random"/>
    <category term="random:poem"/>
    <dw:music>AAA - Hurricane Riri, Boston Mari</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>tired</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>8</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;blockquote&gt;
    &lt;p&gt;
I will not play at tug o' war. &lt;br /&gt;
I'd rather play at hug o' war, &lt;br /&gt;
Where everyone hugs &lt;br /&gt;
Instead of tugs, &lt;br /&gt;
Where everyone giggles &lt;br /&gt;
And rolls on the rug, &lt;br /&gt;
Where everyone kisses, &lt;br /&gt;
And everyone grins, &lt;br /&gt;
And everyone cuddles, &lt;br /&gt;
And everyone wins. 
    &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;


&lt;p&gt;
    &lt;em&gt;
:Shel Silverstein
    &lt;/em&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=81402" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:80908</id>
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    <title>Lessons learned in cupcake baking tonight</title>
    <published>2012-05-13T05:36:32Z</published>
    <updated>2012-05-13T05:37:25Z</updated>
    <category term="random:food"/>
    <category term="baking"/>
    <category term="random:life"/>
    <category term="cooking"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:music>Utada Hikaru - Beautiful World</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>on autopilot</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>0</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;ol&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;
    Having to purée bananas by shoving them through a tiny handheld sieve 
    a tablespoon at a time &lt;em&gt;really sucks&lt;/em&gt;.
    The &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tamis"&gt;tamis&lt;/a&gt;
    that's on my gift wishlist is getting bumped up in priority.
    &lt;/li&gt;

    &lt;li&gt;
    Even if you manage to remember &lt;em&gt;all the ingredients&lt;/em&gt; for
    the nifty new cupcake recipe you're making for the first time, and
    &lt;em&gt;all the ingredients&lt;/em&gt; for the icing you'll be using as
    well, forgetting that you've run out of cupcake liners still means
    a late-night run to the 24-hour grocery store. 
    &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=shadowspar&amp;ditemid=80908" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:77299</id>
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    <title>How to care for your introvert</title>
    <published>2012-04-06T18:46:56Z</published>
    <updated>2012-04-06T18:47:17Z</updated>
    <category term="introversion"/>
    <category term="random"/>
    <dw:music>Super Dodge Ball - VS Theme</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>blah</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
    <dw:reply-count>5</dw:reply-count>
    <content type="html">&lt;p&gt;
I like this, as an introvert myself, and a parent of another.
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;
&lt;a href="http://marina.dreamwidth.org/1254822.html"&gt;Linked&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://marina.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://marina.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;marina&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;img src="http://i.imgur.com/Nakqc.jpg" width="600" height="555" alt="How to care for introverts graphic; transcript follows" /&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Respect their need for privacy&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Never embarrass them in public&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Let them observe first in new situations&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Give them time to think; don't demand instant answers&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Don't interrupt them&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Give them advance notice of expected changes in their lives&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Give them 15 minute warnings to finish whatever they are doing&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Reprimand them privately&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Teach them new skills privately&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Enable them to find one best friend who has similar interests &amp;amp; abilities&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Don't push them to make lots of friends&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;Respect their introversion; don't try to remake them into extroverts&lt;/li&gt;
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    <id>tag:dreamwidth.org,2009-09-15:446148:68006</id>
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    <title>Anyone who's ridden the TTC can probably appreciate this</title>
    <published>2011-12-08T05:36:24Z</published>
    <updated>2011-12-08T05:37:14Z</updated>
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    <dw:music>Lisa Loeb &amp; Nine Stories - Do You Sleep?</dw:music>
    <dw:mood>tired</dw:mood>
    <dw:security>public</dw:security>
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 &amp;lt;firestormink&amp;gt; Dear streetcar, whenever you are ready. &lt;br /&gt;
 &amp;lt;@shadowspar&amp;gt; @firestormink don't worry; when the streetcar finally comes, I'm sure it will show its contrition by bringing three more with it. &lt;br /&gt;
 &amp;lt;@firestormink&amp;gt; @shadowspar They travel in packs, for protection, and to hunt. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;
Also, like &lt;span style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='https://inoru-no-hoshi.dreamwidth.org/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png' alt='[personal profile] ' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: text-bottom; border: 0; padding-right: 1px;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='https://inoru-no-hoshi.dreamwidth.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;inoru_no_hoshi&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; mentioned in IRC, we need
a qdb for twitter. =)
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