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Friday, October 25th, 2013 09:57
When I see a comment I feel is slamming me personally, here's how I deal with it.

I identify the problematic behaviour that's being called out.

I try to honestly and searchingly reflect on how much I manifest that behaviour.

If I do evince that behaviour, then I think about what I can do to improve.

If I can honestly say that I've substantially banished that behaviour from my life, then the comment doesn't apply to me, and I let it pass.
Friday, October 25th, 2013 16:18 (UTC)
Bless. Thank you for knowing the difference between analyzing systems of behavior and analyzing personal behavior.